If you and a friend with benefits:?

bullsh*tted openly and joked openly about sex only fooled around 1 time month...but, one liked the other very very much after about 2 years of trying everything she got pissed at something he did...and she decided to write him a note with alot of bitchen and called him crude names and more....but he had been a schmuck clearly as they both past there 40's....now she is afraid to see him..she knows its over yes. and needed to be...yes...but.how mad should he be ? and how wrong was she call him an ignorant slut and fool....Or considering things is it not too big a deal???